Deciphering common cat behaviors

4 minutes | Cat Behaviour

Cats may have a reputation for being mysterious, but their behaviour speaks volumes once you learn how to read it. Ready to decode your cat’s behavior? Here’s your go-to guide for understanding common cat behaviours (and what they mean).

Slow Blinking: The Cat Kiss

When your cat gives you a slow, deliberate blink, they’re not just being cute—they’re showing trust and affection. It’s often called a “cat kiss” because they feel safe and connected to you. Try blinking back slowly; it’s a way of saying, “I love you too.”

Kneading: A Sign of Contentment

Ever had your cat knead on you like a little baker? This goes back to kittenhood, when they kneaded their mother to stimulate milk flow. As adults, cats knead when they’re feeling relaxed and content. If your cat kneads on you, take it as a compliment—you’re officially their safe space.

Head Butting (Bunting): A Mark of Affection

That little head bump your cat gives you? It’s their way of marking you with their scent and saying, “You’re mine.” It’s also a big sign of affection and trust.

Rolling Onto Their Back: Trust and Safety

If your cat flops onto their back, belly up, it’s not always an invitation to rub it. While it shows trust, most cats aren’t fans of belly rubs. Those claws might come out fast if you try. It’s more a sign they feel safe around you, so let them enjoy their belly-flop in peace.

Chattering at Birds or Prey: Excitement and Frustration

That chattering noise your cat makes when they spot a bird? It’s excitement mixed with frustration. Some experts think it mimics the biting motion they’d use if they could catch their prey. (If only windows weren’t in the way!)

Hiding: A Sign of Stress or Illness

If your usually social cat is suddenly playing hide-and-seek more than usual, they could be stressed or feeling unwell. Cats tend to hide when they’re anxious or sick, so it might be time for a vet check if this is new behaviour. On the flip side, some cats just love cozy corners—it’s their safe zone.

Excessive Grooming: A Potential Health Concern

Cats are naturally clean creatures, but if they start over-grooming, it could be a sign of stress, anxiety, or a medical issue like allergies. Keep an eye on any spots they’re obsessing over and consider a vet visit if it’s out of the norm.

Slow Approaches & Quick Retreats: Boundary Testing

Does your cat come up to you, then dart away when you try to pet them? Classic boundary testing. They’re feeling conflicted—wanting affection but still a bit cautious. Let them come to you when they’re ready for snuggles.

Bringing You ‘Gifts’: A Sign of Love and Family

Found a dead mouse or toy at your feet? Congrats, your cat sees you as part of their family! It’s their instinct to hunt and share their spoils. Gross, but also kind of sweet, right?

Your cat’s behaviour is always telling a story, whether it’s affection, anxiety, or something in between. By tuning in and learning to interpret their actions, you’ll deepen your bond and communicate more effectively. Cats may seem independent, but they’re always speaking to you—you just have to know how to listen.

 

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